We are irrational. We are easily hurt. We hold grudges. We think about sex as much as men do…we just dont like to admit it. When we first see a good looking man we do, indeed, think about how he would be in bed…and THEN we go into our fantasy world(thinking of marriage, kids, etc…). We will pick fights when things are perfect sometimes just to see how much you care. We are ALLinsecure about something. We like to be told how pretty we are…a lot. We love our friends. We DONT tell them EVERYTHING (to all my friends…”did i just say that?” come on we all know its true lol). We do as much dirt as men do…we just do it better. We aresmarter than men…and sometimes when we’re in relationships we pretend not to be so that we can ignore the WARNING signs. We always know when a man isn’t the right one…we just dont alwaysaccept it. We get dressed for men (dont care what we say…we want you to notice just how cute we look). We live somewhere betweensanity and insanity. We lie. We probably have done #2 at your house without you knowing :). We’re fragile (even all the “i dont need a man. im strong and independent and God fearing and cant nobody hurt me” sistas out there). We need to feel appreciated. We’re soft and kind. We’re ruinable. We’re special. We laugh with our eyesand sometimes hurt with our words (we dont mean to). We’re the worse during “soowoo” season. We tell our girls mostly all the bad stuff you do. We try to trust. We want to trust. We find it hard to trust. We know when you’re 100% in it. We know when the fire is gone. We listen to songs and make our love stories match them…even when they dont. We hear everything you say…and we’ll twist those words around to mean whatever we want them to lol. We sometimes confuse lust with love but I’ve never known a woman to confuse love with lust. We do all the things we did as girls…still. We are complex…yet very simple. We believe in love…even when we say we dont. We need love. We need to love someone. We love to be desired. We hate to be bugged. We love to be admired and envied. We hate to be ignored.

what I know women like about men….

We like when you try to be tough. We like when you do things…just because. We like when you make french toast ;). We like when you remember something we said in a conversation. We like when you’re honest about not being honest. We like when you place your hand on the small of our backs. We like when you watch us talk and get lost in our eyes for that moment. We like when you dont know how to do something but pretend you do. We like how you smell. We like how you walk especially when we’re with you. We like how you pretend to not care what we think…but you do. We like howpassionate you get about sports, music, movies, etc…women like passion in general. We like when you place your hand on our thighsor on top of our hand in a movie theatre or in the car. We like when you get mad about how someone treated us. We like when you let your competitive side get the best of you and wont let us win. We like when you let us win. haha. We like when you admit to liking a“chick” flick. We like when you trust us. We like when we can trust you. We like when we can smell you on our clothes when you leave. We like when you teach us about sports…even when you getfrustrated. We like when you talk to our mothers. We like when you reach out to our friends. We like when you try to guess what we’ll like…and get it wrong…but at least you tried. :)

(via bestnewactress)